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    Can Gratitude Shape Your Destiny?

    Matthew FerryBy Matthew FerryAugust 3, 2010Updated:April 11, 20174 Comments2 Mins Read
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    How can practicing gratitude shape your destiny? The answer is very simple. You become what you think about, so you need to focus on what is working in your life. The more you focus on how your life is good and on what makes you happy, the more your life becomes what makes you happy! Your life becomes all the things you are grateful for.   So your future becomes more and more what you like about your life.

    Now let’s look at the other side of it.  The Drunk Monkey in your head, and it’s talking and thinking about what’s not working, what you’re afraid of, what you need to avoid and fix. The Drunk Monkey is attracting more of that stuff into your life. It’s attracting more of what you don’t want, so your life becomes progressively more difficult to deal with.  Gratitude literally turns your life in a direction that is more of what you want. It will shape your destiny in ways that you can’t even imagine. Your life is gonna become progressively more joyous as you’re practicing gratitude.

    Today, start saying “Thank You.” Thank you for the good, thank you for the bad (and the opportunity to learn and grow). Starting with “Thank you” is a powerful was to start experiencing gratitude in all areas of your life.

    Thank you for reading!

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    Matthew Ferry is a spiritual teacher, master coach, and best-selling author. Since 1993, he has helped thousands of high-performing professionals, entrepreneurs, and executives transcend fear, quiet their minds, and create what he calls Enlightened Prosperity™—success without stress. His signature methodology, The Rapid Enlightenment Process™, has been peer-reviewed and published in the Journal for Advanced Social Sciences. He is the author of Quiet Mind Epic Life, creator of the Mental Journey To Millions, a 2x TEDx speaker and best-selling author.

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    4 Comments

    1. Curtis on August 3, 2010 4:49 pm

      I am thankful for you and the inspiration you tweet daily.

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    2. Wendy Scharfman on August 4, 2010 3:06 pm

      Makes perfect sense to me, Matthew. Nice post!

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    3. Darren Poke on August 5, 2010 12:44 am

      Great post and you’re right, gratitude is a crucial component of living successfully.

      Here’s a post on the subject from my blog that I hope is helpful, http://betterlifecoaching.wordpress.com/2010/05/14/an-attitude-of-gratitude/

      I love your analogy of the drunk monkey as well.

      Cheers,

      Darren

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    4. sathyan muttambalam on August 1, 2018 11:08 pm

      Dear Mr mathew perry I am interested in translating your works in to Malayalam and other Indian languages. Pl direct your literary agent
      Sathyan Muttambalam
      Bangalore
      India

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