“You vote with your time” is one of Kristen’s favorite sayings. And she’s right. The fastest way to learn about someone is to understand what they DO, not what they SAY… Which is a bizarre paradox… given so much of our life is what we speak about. When we speak about what we don’t want, we tend to get it (have you noticed?) When we speak about what we do want, we tend to get that instead. So, what’s the connection? Simple. What you say, and what you do create your day, your week, your month and your year. Most people…
Author: Matthew Ferry
Two days ago I got a piece of news that by any measure could be classified as “bad news.” For a moment I wanted to wallow in it… Stick my head in the sand… Cancel all my coaching calls… and call it a day. Luckily, I’ve trained myself in one simple concept: Celebrate the crap. What I mean is breakdowns are the beginning of breakthroughs. So, the more epic the breakdown, more epic the breakthrough. That’s why you want to celebrate the crap, too. It serves a purpose… It represents the degree of the potential good things coming your way.…
The Law of Attraction mindset has the power to change your life. But not if you are making these mistakes. Shifting your mindset to utilize the perspective The Law of Attraction gives you helps you accomplish goals rapidly. The experience is magical. It feels like what you want just falls in your lap. It feels effortless. Unfortunately, it’s not easy to shift your mindset and get the Law of Attraction working in your favor. Over the years, I’ve assisted thousands of people in adopting a mindset that utilizes the full power of The Law of Attraction. One of the first steps…
Goal setting is tricky. Sometimes your goals feel stuck. Instead of freaking out, relax and keep doing what you are doing. Sometimes your goals feel stalled but most often, they are just manifesting in the background. The tendency is to get in action and try to make something happen. But, there is no need to change things up until the perfect opportunity presents itself. Just relax and the energy will start moving again. In other words… Don’t push or force it. Everyone I’ve ever worked with, gets stuck when they freak out and start pushing. You push because you get…