Author: Matthew Ferry
When I suggest to my clients that they go through the Worst Case Scenario process, many think I’ve lost it. I hear things like “What you focus on expands, Matthew.” “I know all about the Law of Attraction. If I think about the worst case, I will attract it.” “I manifest what I think about. There is no way I am going to focus on bad things.” These responses are perfectly logical until you dig a little deeper. Here’s why: Resisting potentially negative futures is a thought-form. Resisting things ENSURES that they are present in your life because you are…
I’ve been obsessed with happiness my entire life. As a kid, I was a slow reader. It turned out to be an advantage because it put me into trance-like states that felt blissful. I was never more happy than when I went into those peaceful states of mind. I’ve spent my life trying to get back there. As a teen, I did what many teens do, I searched for happiness in all the wrong places. Sex and drugs did not give me the happiness I was looking for. Through luck, maybe fate or karma, I ended up in the human…
Does relationship create happiness? I think it does, actually. And as I look at the thousands of clients that I’ve coached over the years, the ones who have been the happiest were the ones who had effective relationships. What is your life anyway? I say it’s relationships. The relationship you have with yourself has a dramatic effect on your happiness. Your relationship to the situations you find yourself in impacts your happiness. Of course, the big one is your relationship to other people. The more relationships you have, the more possibilities for enriching conversations and connections. Opportunities to be so…