Author: Matthew Ferry

1. Start small, because then you believe in it! You don’t get attached to small things, so results just come. 2. Don’t focus on Fear. Let go of Fear and you will Mega-Manifest… 3. Know that you deserve it. You deserve to Mega-Manifest. There is no evidence anywhere that you do not! 4. Manifest Big Stuff! Don’t worry how long it takes. Worry stops good things from coming to you. 5. Release your attachment to the outcome. You don’t need what you want. Your life is already amazing, so why attach to an outcome. 6. Let The Law of Manifesting…

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The Universe is trying to deliver on everything you desire. If you are acting out of fear, you are blocking it. If you are acting out of certainty, you are flowing with it. If you are suffering in any way, you are blocking it. If you are making anybody wrong, if you are upset or you are mad about what others are doing, you are blocking it. The right people and circumstances are already starting to fall into your lap as you start being certain, being joyful and enjoying each of the people and situations that you encounter. For example,…

I have found one of the most powerful ways to keep relationships working is to use what I call “the Date Night Questions.” Don’t let the name fool you. These questions can be used for all your relationships: spouses, business partners, colleagues, kids… you name it. I invite you to give them a try. All you have to do is schedule time once a week (or a month) and ask these questions to one another. Then, watch how your relationship becomes more trusting, open, and honest. Here they are: >Do you have any expectations that are being broken? >Is there…

Successful people realize that success does not bring happiness. Happiness is the next journey for most successful people. Early on, most top performers equate that success will fill the void within them and show the world that they are valuable. Sorry to say, it doesn’t happen. Happiness takes a different set of skills, disciplines, systems, and procedures. Here are the first three steps to getting on the path of true happiness: Step One: You must see the mind, which I call The Drunk Monkey, for what it really is. The Drunk Monkey, all that talking in your head, is just…

Originally posted May 14, 2010 I’m sitting in row 20 seat E.  That’s the middle seat at the back of the plane.  This morning, not knowing what seat my assistant had booked me for this trip I wrote in my intentions, rather spontaneously, “I am so thankful to the universe for providing me with first class seats on the way up and back to Seattle this week… or something better!” This isn’t normally something I spend too much time manifesting as I practice being in a state of Ridiculous Bliss where ever I am, regardless of the circumstances.  But…

As a life coach, my job is to support my clients in getting inspired and empowered to take action on their most cherished dreams. A problem that we all face is that fear gets in the way. You know what you want. In fact, most of the time, you even know what to do to get what you want, but you get stopped by fear, doubt, uncertainty. These are emotions that tell you that you’re listening to, or you’re allowing your mind to control your life. Your mind, which I call The Drunk Monkey, is nothing more than a survival…

As a coach, my job is to help my clients successfully transition from the life that they currently have to the life they want. This means confronting and conquering the fear of change. Think about it like this. Even though your goals and dreams are exciting to think and talk about, your dreams are usually much less exciting to implement. Dreams are new. New is hard. New is different. New means potential failure. The Drunk Monkey, which is my little nickname for the mind, is designed to keep you away from new. Part of your programming as an animal is…

If you are already successful, then you know that success does not create happiness. In fact, success often creates the exact opposite.  Success is often defined as a series of well-managed breakdowns.  The more you succeed, the more there is to manage, the more goes wrong and the less time you have for yourself.  Look at the landscape of superstars and notice how many self-destruct under the pressure of their success.  Often, the more successful you get, the worse your life gets.  But it doesn’t have to be that way. As a life coach to the biggest players in the…

To discover your purpose you need to use a series of questions that help you to get to the core experience you are committed to having. So let’s start with a baseline question. 1. What is something you love doing now in your life? For example: you may love playing with your kids, creating music, gardening, surfing, snowboarding or going shopping. Maybe you love supporting your local charity or driving your car really fast. It really makes no difference where you start in this questioning process because you will always end up at the experience you love having in your life. 2. Now, keep in…