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    Instantly Remove The Crap That Is Distracting You From Going After Your Ideal Life

    Matthew FerryBy Matthew FerryApril 10, 2017Updated:February 10, 20204 Comments3 Mins Read
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    I am willing to bet you are distracted by your life.

    You have goals you want to achieve.

    You have things you want to buy.

    You have trips to take, hobbies to do, people to see…

    Let’s be honest.

    There are times when you wish things were different, right?

    Now, let’s be REALLY honest.

    There are times when you blame your existing for life being in the way of the life you really want.

    And that sucks.

    But it doesn’t have to be this way.

    In fact, I am about to show you exactly how to take your existing life, and remove the crap that is distracting and blocking you from going after your ideal life.

    Once the distractions and the blocks are gone, things just get easier.

    In fact, when you remove the distractions and the blocks, you create the space for your ideal life to happen.

    Right now, your life contains some things that you really don’t want.

    It’s time to clean house and make room for the things that you DO want.

    Are you ready?

    #1. Stop resisting how things are.

    Resisting is the #1 way to MAKE SURE what you don’t want, stays put. Your focus on it is like building vault around what you don’t want. Ick.

    #2. Start accepting what is.

    Realize that whatever you are resisting simply isn’t your preference, and that’s OK. Knowing what you don’t want is a powerful way to clarify what you DO want.

    #3. Make up a new meaning that empowers you.

    Your kids pissing you off? Use their behavior as a way to discover how to be the parent you want to be.

    Buried in debt? Use it as way to become resourceful and creative about how to get yourself into financial integrity.

    Start to use what you don’t want as a stepping stone to the life you DO want…

    That means:

    1. Find a new meaning the things you don’t like. Stop resisting. Start accepting and then take action from that new perspective.

    2. Give up that you know how things are supposed to be. Go into a state of appreciation for how things are (even the “bad” stuff) and you being to eliminate it as a block.

    3. To completely eliminate the impact of something that is blocking you, go into a state of gratitude.

    Gratitude is the ultimate way to get what you want. When you are in a grateful, non-resistant state you literally create space for the things you want to show up.

    Can I prove it?

    Sure.

    This week, I want you to be grateful for EVERYTHING.

    Red lights slowing you down. Your kid’s temper tantrums. Debt. Mean people… whatever you resist.

    Whatever you think sucks, I want you to turn the tables on it.

    Appreciate it for what it is, and be grateful that it gives you the opportunity to decide how you will respond.

    1 week… that’s all I ask.

    Do this for one week, and see what happens.

    I am betting that in 7 short days, things will be easier. Small miracles will start happening. You will be more at peace… even if it’s just a little.

    This week, accept and have gratitude.

    And watch as your ideal life starts to unfold before your eyes.

    Let’s do this.

    I go into the above 3 steps in (along with a lot more) in more details in my new book, “Quiet Mind Epic Life: Escape The Status Quo And Experience Enlightened Prosperity Now.” Click the image below to get the first 6 chapters for FREE!

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    Matthew Ferry, is a Spiritual Teacher, Songwriter and Best-Selling Author. For the last 26 years, Matthew Ferry has coached thousands of top performers to achieve Enlightened Prosperity™. His books, videos, audios, songs, meditations and seminars all utilize his street tested methodology called The Rapid Enlightenment Process™. Among his many projects, Ferry manages a blog and spearheads The Ignite Mastermind. Matthew Ferry is also the author of Quiet Mind Epic Life, an Amazon Self Help and Spirituality best-seller in the US, Canada, Australia and Japan. Matthew and his family live in Southern California.

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    4 Comments

    1. Donald Weber on April 12, 2017 1:11 pm

      like to ask you about the 5 second rule is it a Monkey chill tool? Also you thought about music and human’s need or not need for it.

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      • Matthew on April 18, 2017 11:27 am

        Hi Donald, I don’t know what you are referring to with the 5-second rule so I’m not able to comment on whether it’s a Drunk Monkey chill tool. But sure like the sound of a Drunk Monkey Chill Tool.

        I don’t really have an opinion on music and human needs one way or the other. I am a songwriter, musician, producer so music is woven into the fabric of my life. I’ve met many people who could care less about music and sound in most forms bothers them. So I’m sure it runs the gamut.

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    2. Mita W on September 29, 2017 2:51 am

      This is a good recipe for self-improvement! Thanks, Matthew, for encouraging trying these positive steps for 1 week to see how much your life can improve. I’m starting today!

      Reply
      • Matthew on January 21, 2018 12:59 pm

        Do it Mita! Keep me in the loop.

        Reply

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