A lot of people ask me why the law of attraction doesn’t work for them. I’ve investigated this a lot, not only in my own personal life with all of my own experimentation, but I’ve also investigated it with thousands and thousands of other coaching clients, where I’m working with them one on one, and they’re saying, “Matthew, why is it that I want this, but I keep getting that?”
What they want is usually success, and what they keep getting is failure. And what it comes down to is probably the most breakthrough ideas that I’ve come across.
It’s called the fundamental misperception. So consider this. Years ago, you accepted false conclusions as correct. You began to live your life as if those warped ideas about your potential were true. And you completely killed off the experiment called life and you started to live within a hallucinated set of boundaries, boundaries that don’t even exist.
Now what happens is you will only manifest and create within those boundaries, and so your goals and dreams are outside of the boundary. But you keep coming up against this lid, this invisible barrier, and the invisible barrier is a foundational belief that you have about yourself that is not true. Fundamental misperception.
For example, no matter how smart you get, you feel stupid. Other people have this feeling like they’re ugly, so they try to be glamorous and look good and show the world how beautiful and amazing and wonderful they are. Yet no matter how much stuff they have, no matter how much they do with themselves, they still feel ugly. These are the people who get addicted to doing plastic surgery and getting a new wardrobe and shopping and all of that.
I want to help you get away from this and avoid it. By being aware of this, you become flexible. The flexibility reveals new options, and those options give you power. The power to create your own life.
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Matthew Ferry
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Hi Matthew,
I love your post about the Law of Attraction. What I have found is that most people focus on what they don’t want instead of what they do and then wonder why they keep getting the same crappy results.
After working with many, many clients and working on myself, of course, I have found it really boils down to “consciousness.” Being consciously aware of our unconscious thoughts and patterns and making a decision to choose something different and in alignment with our goals and desires.
Suzie, I couldn’t have said it better myself. Thank you for your contribution to my blog! Your thoughts are relevant and valuable.