I received this note unsolicited from Sherry Haylett today and I was moved to tears of joy. Sherry has coached with me personally and she just completed the Breakthrough to Bliss weekend retreat. I hope you are as touched as I was 🙂
Breakthroughs, Bliss & Happiness
“Have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror and wondered “Who am I? What is wrong with me? Why am I here? Why I cant I? When will I ever just get it?” You know, get the relationship, get the job, get the friends etc. Well, that was me before I met Matthew Ferry.
I came from one of those “dysfunctional” families. But hasn’t everyone? I could have used that as an excuse for the rest of my life but I wanted a “life”! The problem was I couldn’t keep a relationship, always looking for the “me” job, never felt good in my own skin. Matthew helped me change all of that.
One day I called Matthew, said, “I need help” and frankly I just meant in my real estate business. I had just quit my brokerage, became my own broker and started my own shop with my name gleaming outside the front door. Truth is, I was scared to death. Who am I fooling thinking I can do this on my own? I needed help and in a very short period of time Matthew did more for me than any of the coaches, counselors, and consultants I paid over the last 20 years. The help he gave me has completely changed my life. I finally feel like I have one. After working with Matthew I am confident, capable, happy, healthy, free from the guilt and pain of the past. How did I do it? One day at a time, video at a time, one seminar at a time, one coaching lesson at a time and one relationship after another Matthew helped me take responsibility for my own power. It wasn’t easy…but now..life is MUCH easier.
I now make more money than I could have ever imagined making, I sell more homes than any other Broker or agent in my area, I no longer let people use me as a door mat, I stand up for myself, I actually understand people now—fear is no longer running my relationships—I respect people and I get their respect. I am no longer a victim. I am no longer lonely.
50 In a Bikini Contest
I’m 50 years young and this year I have “Transformed my Fear into Action!”. This year I got up on stage and competed in a bikini contest with girls younger than my daughter!! Talk about confidence! I never would have had the courage to do it without Matthew’s help. I still don’t have the perfect relationship in my life, but at least now I know what I deserve. I know I don’t have to fix people or I don’t have to help them in order for them to love me. Most importantly, I love myself. I’m more forgiving, I’m closer to God and I realize that this life will be whatever I want it to be. I’m in control.
I am forever changed by the work put out by Matthew Ferry. I am forever grateful that he spends his time making sure his message gets out to the world. I know it will change the world for the better, just like it has changed me for the better. Thank you Matthew! – Sherry Haylett“